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Slow Down and be Steadfast

newyearseveoverWhat a strange year it has been – “incredible” is really the only way to describe it. So many of the past year’s events ridiculed, deemed impossible, yet here we are in a reality we thought unimaginable, throwing our hands in the air as if this couldn’t possibly have anything to do with us, as if it all just happened to us.

Maybe we are innocent bystanders, and maybe, just maybe, we were too busy, too blind, too arrogant, too naive, too careless to believe that there were people out there who felt differently, whose worlds and futures did not look bright and for whom the light at the end of the tunnel is rapidly disappearing.

While there is, no doubt, enough blame to go around, the best place to start is always with oneself. What could each of us have done differently and how can we ensure that past lessons lead to future improvements?
It is hard not to feel overwhelmed by the speed at which the world spins. At times it almost feels like we are on a runaway train – too afraid to slow down and consider route and direction out of fear of being thrown off and left behind.

What we fail to understand – or perhaps choose to ignore – is that we, our generation, our time, is just a blip on the screen of history and as important as we think we are, as unique as we may believe our times to be, there will come a time when future generations – themselves just as important, their times equally unique – will look back at us and wonder why we never stopped to reflect.

Why we allowed our need for speed to define us and dictate our actions with such dire consequences for people and planet alike. Why those of us, to whom so much has been given, chose to focus increasingly on ourselves instead of choosing to “lift as we climbed”.

So as 2016 becomes 2017, one New Year’s resolution could be to slow down – just a little; just enough to give ourselves time to listen and to reflect on our actions, our words and our decisions.
There is always room for improvement, but without reflection there can be no improvement; without reflection, history is bound to repeat itself – warts and all.

Let us show those future generations that we take our responsibilities seriously, that we dare slow down the train and that we are capable of dedicating our unique talents and creative abilities to the betterment of the world as a whole and not just the tiny part we inhabit.

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As we close out another year at Books & Company, we are once again filled with so much gratitude for all the wonderful moments spent in the company of what is without a doubt the best community any bookshop could ever hope for.

Thank you for all the great conversations, ideas, laughs and debates; thank you for your friendship and support. Thank you for choosing to come in!

Happy New Year!

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Resistance is (not) futile

newsletterI fear Trump. I fear the hate, I fear the anger. But most of all, I fear normalization.

As the shock dissipates and we try to move forward, we long for the ground to stop shaking, but it won’t. With every headline and every choice, Trump confirms all our worst fears, rolling back values the world has spent the better part of the last century working so hard to build; respect, tolerance, open-mindedness, security, community and alliances – all are being done away with in one fell swoop.

It looks bleak, yes, but there is no reason to despair, quite the contrary. Now is the time to put to work the hard earned lessons of the past, to show that the world has indeed come a long way in understanding the essential work of protecting minorities, communities and the environment. These will all have targets on their backs and it will be our job to protect them.

As impressive and generous as it was to hear President Obama urging the country to come together behind the president-elect, that is his job. Any other response would have been irresponsible. The response of the people must be different, yet the same. Ours must echo that of calm and respect for the choice of a democratic election, yet bring to bear the instruments of peaceful yet forceful resistance. It will be essential, while doing this, to insist on the high road and not give in to the anger and aggression that brought us to where we are today.

Vast differences and great divides – economic, social and cultural – are tearing apart not only the Untied States but many countries across Europe and a lethal cocktail of blind eyes, laziness, lack of understanding and – most devastatingly – opportunistic and deceitful politicians has allowed the ugliest voices among us to rise to the top. These voices must be drowned out by the voices of reason, hope and respect. We must stand strong, refuse to normalize and make sure that the ground never ceases to shake under the Trumps of the world.

To quote Anthony Romero, executive director of The American Civil Liberties Union: “Democracy should be messy; it should be loud, it should be hotly contested. There is no right we’ve had in our country [……] that’s been granted to us, it’s been taken and this is not a time for us to be afraid about demanding action on the rights and the issues that we care about.”

Book of the Week – Hillbilly Elegy by J.D. Vance

hillbillyI had a very different beginning – and ending – in mind for this book review. Because Hillary was supposed to win! Right? Well, that didn’t happen and now I am more grateful than ever for having read this week’s Book of the Week, Hillbilly Elegy – A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis.

The book is a memoir of a young man who has made his way from a poor white community of Jackson, Kentucky (the land emboldened by the words of Donald Trump) through the dreams of middle class America in Middletown, Ohio to the hallowed halls of Silicon Valley. But this is not your typical memoir depicting the classic American dream; it is more than anything an analysis of a country and culture in crisis.

J.D. Vance’s journey from a poor Appalachian town via the Marines and Yale Law School to success in California is a journey filled with fear, pain and hard work, but it is also a journey made possible by the love of a grandmother who in any other setting would be reported to Social Services. On the face of it this might seem like your ordinary rags to riches story. However, What makes J. D. Vance’s book so powerful and moving is the recognition that for the vast majority of children growing up in poor white America there is very little hope, if any, of making it to even the periphery of what the rest of us would call a comfortable life. It seems at times as if there is conspiracy of circumstance and coincidence that sets up hurdle after hurdle for these kids and that only a stroke of luck, a single devoted teacher or a tough as nails family member can play the role of superhero. But this surely cannot be what the children of the wealthiest nation in the world (and their parents) should have to rely on in 2016?

Hillbilly Elegy has no racial component. It does not set white communities up against African Americans and it does not address the black experience in America today (many other great books are doing that.) Yet, interestingly, many of the experiences of Vance’s family members mirror those of the poor black community in the south.

The book also describes the historic migration of entire communities from the South to the North in search of post war middle class dreams of homes, white picket fences, security and education for their children. It opens the reader’s eyes to what happened to these large communities once the dream disappeared due to globalization and financial crisis and how many of the members of these communities had nowhere to go and not much to lose.
And in an additionally interesting “twist” Vance does not blame one or the other, the system or the individual, rather describes how the downfall of this very large group of people (voters!) is due not only to an, at times, unfair society but also to the inability of individuals to understand the role they could play in their own lives.

It only took a chapter or two to realize that I had met the people (millions it turns out) who voted for Donald Trump. It wasn’t all a huge surprise – I had peered through my bubble and thought I had seen them, but really I hadn’t.

In this week of Thanksgiving I am grateful to J.D. Vance for broadening my horizon and adding color to the default “black and white”. I fear Trump and all the ugliness he embodies but thanks to Hillbilly Elegy I am less angry at the people who voted and more angry at the politicians who took advantage of them, lied to them and will without a doubt let them down.